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Scripture reading: Matthew 25:1-13

The Parable of the Ten Bridesmaids

25‘Then the kingdom of heaven will be like this. Ten bridesmaids* took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom.* 2Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3When the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them; 4but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. 5As the bridegroom was delayed, all of them became drowsy and slept. 6But at midnight there was a shout, “Look! Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.” 7Then all those bridesmaids* got up and trimmed their lamps. 8The foolish said to the wise, “Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.” 9But the wise replied, “No! there will not be enough for you and for us; you had better go to the dealers and buy some for yourselves.” 10And while they went to buy it, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went with him into the wedding banquet; and the door was shut. 11Later the other bridesmaids* came also, saying, “Lord, lord, open to us.” 12But he replied, “Truly I tell you, I do not know you.” 13Keep awake therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.*

Sermon Title:   "READY OR NOT"           Sunday, December 7, 2008     

REV. KRIS STEELE, ASSOCIATE PASTOR:  When Jesus

described the Kingdom of God or when he taught about

judgment, he often used the image of needing to be

prepared, for example, the image of the master

returning from a long journey; or more timely, like a

long, delayed drive-through.

In Matthew, Jesus begins with the parable of the

wise and foolish bridesmaids. 10 bridesmaids took

their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom because

everyone wanted to see him. The Bible says they all

fell asleep during the long wait of his return, but

there was a difference with some in preparedness. Now

undoubtedly, Christians identify Jesus as the

bridegroom.

I want to point out the bridesmaids were all

alike outwardly. They were all alike in wisdom and

knowledge, frailty, and in ignorance. Now the primary

responsibility of the bridesmaids was to light the way

with their oil lamps for the bridegroom, and when it

took longer than the bridesmaids expected for the

bridegroom's arrival, the five foolish bridesmaids

realized their lamps were out of oil. Scripture says

the first thing they did was ask the wise bridesmaids

to borrow some of their oil, but the wise bridesmaids

were unwilling.

You see, Jesus was making the point that there

are some things we must do for ourselves. There are

some things that cannot be borrowed. Often people

think they can live on borrowed things. They'll be

okay because of the faith of their parents, or they'll

be okay because of the faith of their spouse, or

they'll be okay because of the faith of their friends,

but the only faith that will sustain us today,

tomorrow, and in the time of judgment is our own

faith.

What lesson can we learn from this parable? How

does this teaching of Jesus apply to our lives today?

I believe we should interpret this parable as a

command to be ready for Christ's return whenever that

event may take place. I believe we should also

interpret this teaching as not only the need for us to

be ready for death and ready for life after death, but

I also think Jesus is calling us to be spiritually

prepared for the Kingdom of Heaven that is in our

midst right now.

There are other places in the Bible where Jesus

tells his disciples they should watch and pray that

they do not fall into temptation. He speaks of the

need to be prepared for sorrow, the need to be

prepared for persecution, and the need to be prepared

for calamity, but in this parable, Jesus is saying we

need to be prepared for joy.

In Hebrews Chapter 9, Verse 28, the Bible says

Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of

many people, and He will appear a second time to bring

salvation, to bring salvation to those who are eagerly

waiting for him. Let us consider for just a moment

the nature of salvation. Salvation is a process.

It's up to us to keep that process alive. Nobody can

do it for us.

Some of our most bitter regrets in life come not

because we were not prepared for the worst, but

because we weren't prepared for the best. Oftentimes

we miss out on those golden opportunities simply

because we're not prepared for them. God created the

world, and He created good in the world, and He set

before human beings a choice of good or a choice of

evil. Life depends on choice.

Nearly half of all marriages in our nation today

end in divorce. Many marriages that end in divorce

are plagued with selfishness, deceit and

unfaithfulness. The power that makes marriage

creative and lasting seems to often be missing, that

power is centered in the love and the strength that

comes through a relationship with Jesus Christ and

through a commitment to your spouse to be there for

better, for worse, for richer or for poorer, in

sickness and in health. Sometimes I think that we may

have forgotten that in marriage it really takes three

to make it work, a man, a woman, and God.

We are celebrating the season of advent. Advent

at this time in the life of our church is about

getting ready. It's about being prepared to receive

Jesus, the savior, God's gift of salvation to the

world. God's word is clear, the bridegroom is the

King. The Savior is coming.

If you really want to experience the true meaning

of Christmas, the true blessings of this very special

time of year, let me encourage you today to accept the

forgiveness, the grace, the mercy and the love that

comes with a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

Accept today what God is offering and let your

light, your lamp shine bright this holiday season, and

you will be able to experience what Christmas is truly

about. In the name of the Father, the Son and the

Holy Spirit, amen.